Last
week I took our Swiss international student to experience a
Remembrance Day ceremony at the cenotaph in our little island town of
Ganges. I have not attended it myself for twenty years or so and with
her foreign eyes beside me I experienced it from a more thoughtful
perspective. A Swiss-German speaker herself and with several recent
German student friends, what would she make of all this ceremony,
this determined remembrance of a conflict that the 'loosing' side
would just as soon forget?
“Lest
we forget”... “we shall remember them”... the crowds of people,
the uniforms, ... marching, bagpipes, bugles and drums. The laying of
wreaths... the battle of the Atlantic, Dunkirk, Juno beach in
Normandy.... The service seemed to last a long time and involve every
organization and business, and half the individuals on the island.
How barbaric this must seem to a young Swiss woman from a country
that was neutral through the European wars of the last century. And
yet, she needs to experience Canadian society in this aspect too and
seek to understand what exactly is being expressed on this cold
morning in October.
Perhaps
it is not so simple after all; we remember the fallen in all the
wars, we look around us at the wounded from the most recent wars as
well as those of the last century, we give thanks, we perform a kind
of hybrid religious and national ritual. “God is with us “we seem
to say before thinking no, that was what they were saying on the
other side of no-mans-land. And those ancient veterans marching past
us, were there not some medals from the other side as well?
We
dedicate ourselves to peace here on our little western island, to
working for peace within our community, supporting our local
institutions and look beyond to our nation and to our world. We
remember, and that remembering is within the context that some of us
are at the sharp pointy end of peace keeping and peace making. We all
remember the past that we may, like those islanders whose names are
carved in stone before us, serve the world and struggle to make it a
better place. Every year we gather to rededicate ourselves to service
for the greater good.
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A
few years ago I wrote a memoir of my early childhood in wartime
Britain. Thinking about our international student and her school
experience of hearing the 'war story' over and over and her German
friend's distress about a history that goes back to their grandparents
generation. (“ We didn't do it, and we love our country”.), I
realize how focused on the 'war' I and my generation are. Born into
it, ( during an air-raid) expecting nuclear annihilation in my adult
years, aware of the wars and dislocations that have come since, mine
must seem a 'warrior' mentality. I have seen a longer time span and
have a more nuanced view of humanity than my student from Europe.
Thinking good thoughts is not enough, but thinking bad thoughts isn't
either. We need to understand.
Here
are my remaining fragments of the story of the Yanks (USAAF (
457Bomber Group ) in Connington, our little village during the war,
and it was not clear cut then either.
I
remember seeing a flag over a hedge; an American flag, I am told.
My
Father walks around our house during air raids on the look out for
incendiary devices. Our 300 year old home has a thatched roof that
would go up like a bomb. The family shelters under the big oak table.
A
crashed German plane in a nearby field is pillaged by a stream of
airmen seeking souvenirs. It later explodes from a delayed action
bomb.
Mom
is always cooking meals for the Yanks using food “provided” from
the base stores. Presumably we got a share in return. Tight rationing
for British families.
Dad
is very interested in hearing stories of the latest mission. Wounded
in WWI, he is out of this one but has his village Home Guard unit.
Brother John listens in.
The
first Americans we meet are the engineers who built the airstrip.
“What are those medal ribbons for?” Dad asks an old railroad
engineer, recently arrived. “Well this is my WWI, this is from my
state, this from my railroad union, this for enlisting...” Not
wrong, just different from the British system. We need to adjust to
American ways too, but really they are mostly so nice that is not so
difficult. And yet our village feels as occupied as many a village on
the other side of the channel. My dad has spent years of his youth in
Canada and the US, only returning for WWI. He feels an empathy for
these boys so far from home. They return our welcome many times over.
My
parents stand outside in the night and watch the city of Coventry
burn from a massive and deliberately scorched-earth air raid. When
later, Germany feels the bite of devastating Allied raids there is
little sympathy here. They started it but we will finish it. Hard
words, strong emotions.
My
brothers watch the con-trails in the sky as fighters and bombers
grapple far overhead. They race around acting out these battles. My
brother Paul is still to this day called 'Hawker' ( Hurricane). They
build an 'ack-ack gun' in the orchard out of old pipe, overlooking the
runway. The village bobby comes to put a stop to their pretending
when the returning aircraft come under 'fire' . The poor guys with
jangled nerves did not appreciate even this bit of fun at the end of
yet another daylight mission.
A
time when the sky is filled with aircraft: Dakotas full of
parachutists and gliders packed with soldiers under tow, all headed
for Normandy and the beginning of the liberation of Europe.
Those
big B 17 four-engined aircraft would no longer roar past our house
and stagger into the air with a heavy load of bombs or limp home
again full of holes. Half of those young men who had swept into our
family’s life would be home again. But those that survived the war
would remember us all their lives as we would equally honour and
remember them.
It
is interesting to think about those on the receiving end of all the
bombs carried by those B 17s. I met a German man while we were
sailing the Pacific who had been a teenager in the Hitler Youth and
had hauled the injured from collapsed buildings. Perhaps he was on
the receiving end of those same bombs loaded on aircraft just down
the road from our home and dropped by those nice young men we knew as
friends. Such is war.
He
said to me,” You know Bill, we could have won the war.” and I
replied, diplomatically I hope, 'Yes, but wasn’t it just as well
you didn’t? Even allowing for the bias of history written by the
victors, and allowing also that not every SS Officer ( his father)
was a monster, surely we can agree that a world ruled by the
leadership of the Nazi party would have been worse than the Roman
Empire ever was?” He had no good answer to that.